February --- I talked to my parents
about their upcoming summer vacation and they told me that they had
planned to spend the first 5-7 days in Davao (dad's hometown) and the
other 5-7 days in Misamis Oriental (mom's hometown) . Since I was not
really close to my relatives and I did not have any idea where to get
the necessary documents, I had decided to file a leave of absence for
two days (April 22-23) coinciding the days that they would be
spending in Misamis Oriental. I chose Air Philippines (now
PalExpress) and paid three thousand pesos for around-trip ticket from
Manila to Cagayan de Oro and vice Versa.
April-after thinking that everything
was fine, my parents suddenly had changed their schedule! Whoa! It
would be a week earlier than what they had planned, to accommodate my
younger sister's enrollment. I was a bit disappointed because I had
thought that re-booking is not allowed, and it would be difficult (or
impossible) to re-schedule someone's leave of absence in our company.
Two weeks before the flight, I asked our Head Team Leader if I could
re-schedule my LOA and luckily, she said it was okay, on the
condition that I would be filing it two weeks before my preferred
schedule.
Another good thing that happened was, I
talked to a Customer Service Representative of Air Philippines and
asked if re-booking was possible, and she said yes, however, only my
trip bound to CDO would be allowed. Hence, from April 19th, my flight
was re-scheduled to April 17th, 7:30 PM.
April 16, 2013 (Tuesday) around twelve
PM---my sister sent me a text message informing me of my need to get
a Police Clearance. What the heck! Why hadn't they informed me
yesterday so that I could have enough time to process it? My father
told me that if I were not able to get the clearance, we could at
least mail it to the Civil Registrar's Office. However, I was not
convinced because I believed that the petition would never be filed
unless the requirements are complete, and he/she would just send me
home and would ask me to come back should I complete my requirements.
I already had NBI Clearance that they
brought with my other papers along with them, and NBI clearance would
be sufficient enough to prove that I did not have any criminal
record. I had two places to get my Police Clearance: first was in
Makati but according to the website (which I think was outdated) it
would take three days before I could get the clearance. The second
was in Taguig City where my parents have been living for more than
twenty years and where I had spent most of my childhood and teenage
days. However, I still need to secure a copy of Barangay Clearance as
pre-requisite.
Plus, I still have two hours before I
could go home---2 PM. We know that in this country, securing
clearances in government offices will take a lot of time. So, I asked
my Team Leader if I could work half-day (5 AM-9AM) the next day
(coincidentally, the day of my flight) should the time of getting
this clearance take longer. However, my TL couldn't give me an
assurance that I would be allowed to do this because working half-day
would only be allowed if the teacher or his/her immediate family
members are sick.
That was literally the so-called “race
against time”. I was just so lucky that my friend Chrissy lives in
the same Barangay as my parents (I haven't been living with my
parents since 2007) and that her house is near the Barangay Hall.
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My father also told me to bring his
Comelec Registration/ Voter's Record, which were not present on the
list that my sister had uploaded via Facebook. The problem: my
parents' room was locked and I had to ask my sister and her boyfriend
to help me unlock the bedroom door. We couldn't open it, hence, we
had to loosen one of the slats of its jalousie window. Whew!
And so my journey began on Thursday
morning, April 18, 2013. My mom requested my uncle, the remaining
single among her siblings, to accompany me to process all the
requirements that I needed. In my previous post, I mentioned that a
petitioner's health examination, ultrasound report and medical
certificate should all be processed in the place where the petition
would be filed and since I was born in Villanueva, Misamis Oriental,
I had to get all those documents not in Manila, but in this place.
The clerk had already given the list of other requirements which I
hadn't processed yet and when I checked it, the only one missing is
the Medical Certificate attesting that I had not undergone sex change
or sex transplant, or so I thought.
First stop: Villanueva Lying-in. It was
closed on that day, and an outsider informed us that this clinic is
opened every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I was really hoping that I
could finish getting all the requirements and getting my petition be
signed for a day, so I could be with my parents to go home via Super
Ferry the next day, so uncle and I had decided to find another clinic
or hospital. For the entire story, please click here.
Villanueva Lying-in |
At around 3:30 PM, the ultrasound
report had been released. My uncle and I went back to the Office of
the Municipal Civil Registrar only to find out that the MCR had
reported that morning and had gone somewhere and hadn't come back
yet. Not only that, the clerk informed me that the Medical
Certificate that I had gotten was not sufficient enough; I still had
to see the Municipal Health Officer because “Ipapa-certify pa yang
medical certificate mo kay Doktora”. She also asked for a copy of
my dad's birth certificate which was not on the list that she had
given to my mom! She asked me to get the copy from the NSO in Cagayan
de Oro to which I replied “Why didn't you just inform us right
away? We had already gone to CDO this morning to get an ultrasound
report!” She re-examined the list and asked me to get a copy of my
parents' Baptismal Certificates in lieu of their birth certificates.
Thus, my uncle and I went to Villanueva
Health Center
Municipal Health Center, Villanueva |
That evening, I went to the other part
of Cagayan de Oro with my relatives. My other maternal uncle the
third among them, is a pastor so I asked my cousin (my uncle's eldest
daughter) to ask his dad via text message to prepare a baptismal
certificate for me so I could get it by the time we reached their
house. When we had arrived at their house, her dad told me that he
had asked his secretary to prepare the document and he asked me to
meet him the next morning to get the papers. Again, I told myself
“what a waste!” Cagayan de Oro is one hour (or more) away from
Villanueva. So I had to travel to CDO then back to Villanueva and
then what? What time would I be finished accomplishing everything?
For more than an hour, I remained silent, nodding and just saying two
to three words whenever my relatives wanted to talk to me. After a
while, I asked my uncle if he owns a computer with printer or if he
knows someone who owns one, or if there's a computer shop nearby.
Thinking that he's a Pastor, I asked whether he has a pattern of
Baptismal Certificate, to which he gave me a pad of Baptismal
Certificates in parchment paper. Eureka! I got two copies, one for my
mom, and the other for my dad, asked for my uncles and aunts
(relatives but with different surnames) to sign as witnesses and
finally, my uncle signed on the pastor's part. He told me that these
certificates are legal since he has been ordained since 1983 and
under the canonical law of the Assembles of God, (I am not sure about
this in other denominations/religions) , it was okay for pastors to
baptize their own relatives. Okay, problem solved!
I thought it was going to be easy since
there were only two things left for me to accomplish the next day:
first is to have the Municipal Health Officer's signature affixed on
the “Special Medical Certificate” and second, is to undergo an
interview with the Municipal Civil Registrar. I hurriedly went to the
Municipal Health Center only to be informed that the MHO had gone to
Cagayan de Oro City to attend a seminar sponsored by the Department
of Health. The staff couldn't give me an assurance that the MHO would
be back, and they had even advised me to drop by her house to ask for
her signature. So I thought, if I were the MHO and somebody had asked
for my signature while I was in the comfort of my home, I would say
“Please see me in the office on Monday”. In addition, most
government workers, if they had to attend field works, do not drop by
the office to log out, so I concluded that she would not be coming
back. When I went back to the Office of the Municipal Civil Registrar
before noon, the same clerk advised me to wait for the MCR to arrive,
and she would give me a call once “Sir” had arrived, because he
had to go somewhere to fix something.
At around two o'clock, my uncle and I
went back to the Office of the MCR, and the clerk again told us that
“Sir” hadn't arrived yet, and that he might not be coming back,
so I need to wait until Monday. The day before, she advised me to
wait for the MCR because:
1. My personal appearance was required
because “Sir” would be asking me some questions, like an
interview, and that my personal appearance would be a proof that I AM
really a female person and
2. I would not be allowed to sign the
petition without the MCR's approval and without his approval, my
effort would become useless.
I begged her to just give me a
certificate that she had received my requirements in behalf of the
MCR since I really needed to go back to Manila because I had to work
the following Monday and since I already had completed my
requirements. I also asked her if I could pay the fees and ask her on
my behalf to forward my “Special Medical Certificate” to the
Municipal Health Officer since she had already affixed her signature
to the Medical Certificate Issued by Tagoloan Polymedic Hospital.
However, my pleas were not heard; instead, she assured me that since
government offices usually have flag ceremony on Monday morning, the
MCR and MHO would be around.
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